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What is Date with Death Club?


Date with Death Club is a secular exploration of mortality within a safe group space, including philosophical, spiritual, informational, and logistical content with a balance of humor and earnest regard for the topic of mortality. 


This course provides a safe[r] and brave[r] space to explore the often-taboo topic of our own death and dying. 


Discussions aspire to cultivate the possibility of living a more awake life by facing the reality of end-of-life planning. 


If you've participated in Death Café or other groups—this course offers even more thought-provoking discussion. 

Explore your mortality in community.

Date with Death Club Online Course Session: Death, Dying & Poetry

Dying, Death, & Poetry will use poetry and written reflections to help you find your own way of understanding your mortality. We will discuss lessons learned about death, love, loss, and resilience.

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Exploring Concepts of Afterlife

What happens after we die is a mystery. There’s lots of speculation and theory but no concrete evidence. In this non-dogmatic session, we’ll explore concepts of an afterlife (or not) through an interfaith panel representing different traditions and outlooks, then engage in personal reflection on what our beliefs are, where we got them from, and how they have held up over our lifetimes.

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Aging: Better than the Alternative 

In this life, there’s no escaping aging or declining health. It is part of the mortal dance. In our youth-oriented society, one must be intentional to feel good about aging or about health challenges. We’ll use this session to explore what it means to come face to face with the two realities of aging and getting sick, lessening fear by facing it.

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Date with Death Club Online Course Session: Owning Your Dying

Owning Your Dying

Death as a general concept is one thing; our own death is a whole other thing. In this session, we’ll talk about possible ways to face our own death with intention, exploring the process of holding deathbed vigils, as well as home funerals. We’ll talk about the role of End-of-Life support people and other community support for reclaiming this aspect of our lives.

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Date with Death Club Online Course Session: Palliative, Hospice and Dying Wishes

Palliative Care, Hospice, and Dying Wishes

More and more people are using hospice at the end of life and doing so sooner, which can be helpful to them and their loved ones. Yet, most people who want to die at home end up dying in a facility. In this session, we’ll hear from an expert on hospice and explore end-of-life documents like advance directives.

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Date with Death Club Online Course Session: Medical Aid In Dying

Medical Aid in Dying

What does death with dignity mean? We’ll explore the in’s and out’s of Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD), including its legal status in the United States and what it means. We’ll also review other legal, ethical ways to hasten death, being sure to explore concerns about ableism that are a part of this landscape.

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What to Do with a Dead Body?

After a death, the body must be taken care of— “disposed.” Common means are burial and traditional cremation. But may you want to donate your body to science? Yet there are evolving technologies and new choices to be made. Perhaps you want a green burial? Or do you want your body to become compost? We’ll explore what’s out there and what choices you may want to make now to get what you want then.

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Date with Death Club Online Course Session: Planning Your Final Goodbye

Planning Your Final Goodbye: Funerals, Memorials & Celebration of Life Services

You can leave it for those who survive you. Or you can spend some time now planning your memorial service, leaving helpful information for your loved ones when the time comes. We’ll also use a specially developed worksheet that you can take home.

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Sharing Circle: What Will Your Legacy Be?

Who’s brought meaning to your life? What do you want the meaning of your life to be? What do you want to leave as your legacy? In this closing session, participants will share photos, mementos, and stories about lost loved ones as well as give voice to how they wish their lives to be remembered after they are gone.

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About Our Facilitator

David Traupman, Community Director, The Solo Ager™ and La Vida Pride eCommunities

In a previous career, David Traupman served Keystone Hospice— an at-home and residential hospice in Philadelphia—as a volunteer, chair of their board of directors, and on staff overseeing community education and partnerships, volunteers, development, and a residential facility restoration capital campaign. During his time there, he had the honor of sharing many individuals' end-of-life journeys and educating the wider community about the benefits of comprehensive palliative and hospice care supported by a pioneering team of music and art therapy, spiritual, and bereavement specialists.


All services and content are offered for educational purposes with no obligation.

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